M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y,\u00a0chia s\u1ebb “\u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf h\u1ec7” c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb Nguy\u1ec5n H\u1ed3ng V\u00e2n, th\u1ea1c s\u0129 X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc\u00a0nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh. Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft, ch\u1ecb V\u00e2n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf, ngo\u00e0i n\u1ed7i lo v\u1ec1 b\u1eefa \u0103n gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a con, khi n\u00e0o m\u1ecdc r\u0103ng hay bi\u1ebft b\u00f2,\u00a0l\u1ea1i\u00a0c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i lo m\u1edbi. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb V\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n

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M\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng nh\u00ecn \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i. \u1ea2nh: L\u00ea Anh D\u0169ng<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n Jean Twenge, gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 ng\u00e0nh T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc San Diego State University, th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb c\u00e1c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t h\u00e0ng n\u0103m v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u thu th\u1eadp tr\u00ean 11 tri\u1ec7u thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean.\u00a0(1)<\/sup><\/p>\n B\u00e0 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1995 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u1ed7i d\u1eady c\u1ee7a thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb di \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y (\u1edf M\u1ef9) d\u00e0nh trung b\u00ecnh 6 ti\u1ebfng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y tr\u00ean Internet. H\u1ecd \u00edt th\u1eddi gian t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh h\u01a1n. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd k\u00e9m h\u01a1n. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gi\u1ea3m \u0111i. C\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 lo \u00e2u t\u0103ng v\u1ecdt. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung t\u1ee5t d\u1ed1c.<\/p>\n Kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ea5p 3 c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y gi\u1ea3m t\u1eeb 60 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m n\u0103m 1980 c\u00f2n 16 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m n\u0103m 2015. \u0110i\u1ec3m thi SAT (m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i thi cu\u1ed1i c\u1ea5p 3 c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9) ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ecdc c\u0169ng gi\u1ea3m. C\u00e1c gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc th\u00ec ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecdc sinh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung kh\u00f3, s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o khoa c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng th\u00e8m s\u1edd v\u00e0o.<\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y k\u00eau ca Vi\u1ec7t Nam kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ecdc, nghe c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y quen kh\u00f4ng \u1ea1?<\/p>\n H\u1ebft nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra, c\u00e0ng d\u00f9ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, s\u1ef1 an y\u00ean t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i, c\u00e0ng gi\u1ea3m \u0111i. V\u00ec sao?<\/p>\n V\u00ec m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1ebd l\u00ean m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. Ai tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, gi\u1ecfi giang, ho\u1eb7c vui v\u1ebb h\u01a1n m\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u0103ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 hay ho, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc g\u1eafn m\u00e1c “\u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng” c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ghen t\u1ecb. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 con nh\u1ecf d\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i hay c\u00e1c thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb di \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/p>\n James Bridle, trong b\u00e0i TedTalk c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, n\u00eau ra m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec m\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.(2)<\/sup><\/p>\n Youtube, hay gi\u1edd c\u1ea3 Facebook, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u00e1c video li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng tr\u00ean trang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u1eb1m t\u0103ng l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn. C\u00e1c g\u1ee3i \u00fd n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1edfi c\u00e1c thu\u1eadt to\u00e1n. Ch\u1ec9 kho\u1ea3ng ch\u1ee5c c\u00e1i vu\u1ed1t tay, t\u1eeb video b\u00e0i h\u00e1t thi\u1ebfu nhi ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n trong s\u00e1ng, s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn video chu\u1ed9t Mickey \u0111ang th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n <\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n C\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd ng\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft con m\u00ecnh \u0111ang xem g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? \u1ea2nh: L\u00ea Anh D\u0169ng<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n V\u00e2ng, c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e2u \u1ea1. Ho\u1eb7c Elsa v\u00e0 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ec7n quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. Ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 g\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00f3i c\u1edfi tr\u1ea7n m\u1eb7c b\u1ec9m c\u1ea7m r\u00ecu ch\u1ea1y lung tung n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u1ea3m nh\u00ed.<\/p>\n \n \n \n <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n C\u00e1c video l\u00e0m cho tr\u1ebb con l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u l\u01b0\u1ee3t xem, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n thu kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3, m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n t\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o n\u1ed9i dung hay ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi tr\u1ebb con d\u00f9ng di \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n H\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u00f4m m\u00e1y t\u00ednh b\u1ea3ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n th\u1eadt ch\u1ea3y v\u00e0o t\u00fai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u0103ng t\u1ea3i video, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 video c\u00f3 t\u00ednh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c hay to\u00e0n ch\u1eedi b\u1eady, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n C\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd ng\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft con m\u00ecnh \u0111ang xem g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n C\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 cho con \u0111i tr\u1ea1i h\u00e8 n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, b\u1ecf h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n ch\u1ea7u ch\u1ef1c \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u00f3n con v\u01b0\u1ee3t t\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111i h\u1ecdc th\u00eam th\u1ea7y gi\u1ecfi, v\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t ph\u1eadn s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea3y may quan t\u00e2m khi con m\u1edbi s\u00e1u b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n, \u00f4m \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 n\u1eeda \u0111\u00eam, s\u00e1ng ng\u1ee7 d\u1eady ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00e1nh r\u0103ng \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf TV l\u00ean xem m\u1ea3i mi\u1ebft?<\/p>\n D\u1ea1o g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, ngo\u00e0i n\u1ed7i lo v\u1ec1 b\u1eefa \u0103n gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a con, khi n\u00e0o m\u1ecdc r\u0103ng hay bi\u1ebft b\u00f2, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i lo m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n M\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3nh\u00a0con m\u00ecnh\u00a0ng\u1ed3i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb em h\u1ecd, ho\u1eb7c con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u d\u00e1n m\u1eaft v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0\u00a0con s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd bu\u1ed3n v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng.<\/p>\n L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ch\u1eb7c l\u01b0\u1ee1i, th\u00f4i con c\u1ea7m \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 \u0111i?<\/p>\n Con m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00e0u nh\u00e0u, t\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n kia, hay con m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u1ee7i th\u1ee7i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n n\u00e0o th\u00e8m \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd?<\/p>\n Li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eaft nhau, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00fai g\u1eb1m m\u1eb7t xu\u1ed1ng, trong khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang h\u00e0n huy\u00ean t\u00e2m s\u1ef1?<\/p>\n C\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i hay m\u00e1y t\u00ednh b\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 con ng\u1ed3i im cho m\u00ecnh r\u1ea3nh tay l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi\u00a0“Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1i n\u00e0y?<\/span>“.<\/p>\n Li\u1ec7u b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u00fai cho con nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb di \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? R\u1ed3i sau n\u00e0y, khi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy \u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn, l\u1ea1i k\u00eau tr\u1eddi?<\/p>\n Nguy\u1ec5n H\u1ed3ng V\u00e2n<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y,\u00a0chia s\u1ebb “\u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf h\u1ec7” c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb Nguy\u1ec5n H\u1ed3ng V\u00e2n, th\u1ea1c s\u0129 X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc\u00a0nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh. Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft, ch\u1ecb V\u00e2n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf, ngo\u00e0i n\u1ed7i lo v\u1ec1 b\u1eefa \u0103n gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a con, khi n\u00e0o m\u1ecdc r\u0103ng hay […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":8962,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":""},"categories":[2,39],"tags":[],"yst_prominent_words":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8961"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8961"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8961\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8963,"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8961\/revisions\/8963"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8962"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8961"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/quangbinhtoday.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=8961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}